October 2003









Past Article(s):
September 2003
Making a Great First






Lasting
Impressions

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(Richmond) City University

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Using Voice Mail Effectively
We live in a world of answering machines and voice mail. This is especially true in the business world. How many of us find ourselves playing "telephone tag" with each other. By the time you actually speak with the person you were trying to contact you've left 2 or 3 messages. In those short message exchanges, the party on the other line has already formed an opinion about you based solely on your speaking voice. In order that people form a good image about you here are some tips which will can help your spoken image. 

When leaving your message:

Speak slowly and clearly. Speak as you normally would but just a little slower and be careful with your enunciation especially if you are calling another part of the country. Consider spelling out a word or name that may be misunderstood or has a unique spelling.

Always include your telephone number in the beginning of the message. Your contact, even a familiar one, could be traveling and may not have it handy. Say the number slowly and in the groups in which they are separated. For instance: 804...pause...301...pause...5962. Repeat it a second time at the end along with the best time to reach you.

When you must make several points during a voice mail, jot them down before placing the call. This will help you stay on track and avoid the embarrassment of calling back with, "Oh, I forgot to tell you one more thing."  Keep the points short and have no more than two or three. The point of voice mail is to get your story across in 30 seconds and give the listener a reason to call back

Most message systems give you the option of listening to your message and editing it. Take advantage of this opportunity to listen to yourself to see if your tone and inflection match the mood you want to create.

On your out going messages:

Make sure your greeting is short but very professional. Write it down and practice your greeting several times before you actually record it. Play it back and listen to your own speaking voice. Is your message too fast? Is it too slow? When you record your message, do so with a smile. You will sound more caring and interested in the caller.

Give your caller options. If you will be out of town and can be reached via email, say so, or indicate when you will be back in the office. Post a note to remind yourself to change your voice mail greeting as soon as you return.

And of course, return every call the same day or within 24 hours - especially with your customers or clients. Voice mail should not be used as a substitute for actual phone conversation.


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